Are all Blokes the same?

I’m just wondering if its me …

Do blokes do stuff, well, ‘just because’… it’s a nice thing to do and doesn’t matter if they don’t benefit directly?

Or do surprises for someone else to make them feel special?

Or are males stubborn and only likely to do something if there is a direct benefit for them? Whereas females will often do things because it gives pleasure to others…

You, see I’m wondering what else I have to do to have someone do something around here ‘just because’ …..

Maybe its stuff on the news and being got at on some issues that aren’t my doing but I’m made to feel guilty when its not my fault along with recent events that’s wound me up. Maybe I just want to be able to relax and have someone do something for me for a change without any come back…